2004-06-18

Watch This Space

It's been a while. For those of you who have been following my feature page at Star Wolf Innovations , you're probably aware that I'm in the middle of a life-changing event of some sort; those of you with whom I've actually been in contact are aware of what said event really is.

I have advice for you: If you marry someone, you need to be sure that you are both committed enough to each other -- and to any future offspring -- to make it work, because separation is painful, to understate the sentiment.

In fact, it downright sucks large rocks through a garden hose.

It's worse if you've had kids.

...and it's even worse if you're still friends with the ex-. Not that I mind this -- it's a good thing, in my opinion. But it doesn't make it any easier to make the physical move. Even now, as I move my affairs in absentia, I find it quite difficult emotionally.

I suppose eventually, the pain goes away.

I just hope my kids don't grow to hate me because I've taken what I perceive to be a necessary direction in my life. They're such good kids, and I want the good things for them. At the same time, my life's not over yet, and I want to be able to enjoy at least some of what I have.

Hopefully this will not be a conflict of interest. I don't think it will be, but I suspect there are differing opinions.

If you have opinions on this, drop me a line and let me know how you feel.

Back in a while. And I have pictures of Linda which I will post when life settles down a bit more.